Last updated: October 16, 2024
Making friends can be difficult. We’ve all been there – scrolling through social media, seeing groups of friends having a blast, and wondering, “How do I get in on that?”
Well, you’re not alone. In fact, you’re part of a silent majority feeling the same way.
In todays modern world, we have more tools than ever to connect with others. With that being said, I will share with you 10 ways to make friends.
But sometimes, all those options can feel overwhelming. That’s why I’ve put together this guide – to help you navigate the world of friend-making in the digital age, without losing that all-important human touch.
In this article, you’ll discover:
- How to turn your interests into friendship opportunities
- Ways to use technology and shared spaces for meeting people
- Strategies for engaging with your local community
- Tips for making friends through travel and outdoor activities
- Ideas for hosting gatherings that foster new friendships
Why you should listen to me: My name is Nick Gray, and I’m the best–selling author of the party handbook The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. I’ve hosted hundreds of parties all over the world. After making it a habit, I can easily host a gathering and make new friends with no sweat. I’ve been featured in The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and New York Magazine once called me a host of “culturally significant” parties.Take a Skill-Sharing Class
Learning something new is a great way to meet people who share your interests.
Classes with partner or group work are friendship gold mines. You’ll naturally interact and might even find a study buddy.
- Pick a skill you’ve always wanted to learn
- Find local classes or workshops in your area
- Chat with your classmates during breaks
- Suggest grabbing coffee after class to practice or chat more
Attend Local Festivals and Events
Your community is full of exciting events where you can meet like-minded people.
To add on to that, many festivals need volunteers. It’s a fantastic way to meet other helpers and get more involved in your community.
- Keep an eye on local event calendars and social media
- Show up to events that pique your interest
- Start conversations with people around you – the event is a built-in icebreaker!
- Join in on activities or games at the event
Use a Co-Working Spaces
Even if you’re a remote worker, co-working spaces can be social hubs.
- Check out co-working spaces near you
- Try free trial days to find your perfect spot
- Join in on any social events or workshops they offer
- Strike up conversations during coffee breaks
Pro tip: Some spaces offer “hot desks” where you sit somewhere new each time. It’s perfect for meeting different people.
Participate in Online Gaming Communities
Gaming isn’t just fun – it’s a great way to connect with people who share your interests.
- Pick multiplayer games that excite you
- Join online forums or communities for your favorite games
- Use voice chat to talk with other players
- Get involved in gaming events or tournaments
Participate in Local Politics or Activism
Getting involved in your community can connect you with passionate, engaged individuals.
- Find causes or issues you care about
- Attend town halls or community forums
- Volunteer for local campaigns or initiatives
- Start or join a grassroots organization
Try Speed Friending Events
Think speed dating, but for making friends. It’s a fun, low-pressure way to meet lots of new people quickly.
- Look for speed friending events in your area
- Prepare a short, engaging intro about yourself
- Bring a positive attitude and be open to all kinds of connections
- Follow up with people you clicked with after the event
Not sure how to start a conversation with strangers? I wrote out the best small talk ideas so you can easily connect with people.
Participate in Group Travel Experiences
Traveling with a group of strangers can lead to lasting friendships. After all, nothing bonds people like shared adventures!
- Find group travel companies that match your interests and age range
- Pick a trip that fits your style and budget
- Be open to sharing experiences with your travel mates
- Keep in touch with your new friends after the trip
Pro Tip: Join a local travel meetup group. They often organize both local outings and bigger trips, giving you plenty of chances to connect.
Join a Dog Park Community
If you’re a dog owner, the local dog park can be a goldmine for new friendships.
No dog? No problem! Many animal shelters need volunteers to walk dogs. It’s a great way to enjoy the dog park community and help out furry friends.
You can also consider hosting your own pet-friendly happy hour. See the full guide on how to host one here.
- Visit your local dog park at the same times regularly
- Chat with other dog owners – your pups are a great conversation starter!
- Organize doggy playdates with people you meet
- Consider starting a local dog owners’ social group
Join a Hiking or Outdoor Adventure Group
There’s something about nature that brings people together. Plus, it’s great for your health!
- Find local hiking or outdoor groups on platforms like Meetup
- Start with beginner-friendly activities if you’re new to outdoor adventures
- Chat with people during hikes and breaks
- Suggest grabbing food together after the activity
Pro tip: Check if your local outdoor gear stores organize group outings. It’s a great way to try new activities and meet people.
Host Regular Game Nights
Hosting your own gathering is a surefire way to meet new people and strengthen existing friendships. Why not make it a cozy game night?
- Choose a variety of games for different tastes and group sizes
- Invite a mix of friends and encourage them to bring others
- Provide some snacks and drinks to create a welcoming vibe
- Make it a regular thing, like every first Friday of the month
Pro tip: Use the principles from my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, to make your game night a hit. Keep it to two hours, use name tags, and start with some fun icebreakers. You could ask everyone to share their favorite game or a funny game night story.
Conclusion
Making friends is all about putting yourself out there and being open to new experiences. By trying out these ideas, you’re creating opportunities for meaningful connections:
- Do things you enjoy – you’ll meet people with similar interests
- Use shared spaces and community events to your advantage
- Embrace technology to find and connect with potential friends
- Be open to diverse friendships and new experiences
- Take the initiative to host your own gatherings
Key takeaways:
- Consistency is key – regularly show up to events or spaces where you can meet people
- Follow up with new connections to nurture budding friendships
- Be patient – building real friendships takes time
- Stay open and approachable in social situations
Remember, the goal isn’t just to meet new people, but to create lasting, meaningful friendships. By putting yourself out there and consistently engaging in social activities, you’ll be well on your way to building an awesome social circle.
In my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, I provide helpful guidance on how to host a great party for any event. I wrote this book to support anyone interested in meeting new people.
When is your party? Send me an email and I will give you some bonus tips, including a pre-party checklist that you can print out. Plus, I’ll answer any question you have, free of charge. I love talking about parties, and I’m on a mission to help 500 people host their first party.
