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September 2026

30th Birthday Party Themes (And Whether You Need One)

Sorted by how much work they are, plus my honest answer on whether you need one.

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Book Stuff
September 2026

The Best Books on Hosting Parties

Four books I actually recommend for hosting, then five more that show up on every other list.

Icebreakers
September 2026

Party Questions: The Green, Yellow, Red System

Sorted by how warmed up the room is, not by how clever they sound.

Invitations
August 2026

Punchbowl vs Evite vs Paperless Post

All three, compared on the things that decide whether your guests actually RSVP.

Tutorials
August 2026

30th Birthday Games: The Best Party Game Ideas

Icebreakers, small-group games, and classics, plus exactly when to run each one so the room stops staying in its own clu…

Book Stuff
August 2026

The Best Books on Making Friends as an Adult

Two books I actually recommend on adult friendship, then five more that come up everywhere.

Tutorials
August 2026

How to Collect RSVPs (And Get People to Show Up)

I once invited someone to a party with only one confirmed guest: me. That's the day I learned RSVPs aren't a formality.…

Tutorials
August 2026

How to Host a Networking Event People Actually Want

I once paid $8,000 for a networking event where nobody knew who was in the room. That's when I stopped attending bad mix…

Tutorials
August 2026

What to Bring to a Party as a Guest (And What Hosts Actually Want)

I texted my friend Lindsay ten minutes before her party to ask if she needed ice. She told me to come an hour later inst…

Case Studies
August 2026

Printed Questions on the Wall: Joe G's Meetup in Los Angeles

Joe read The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, ran it for a member group in Los Angeles, and made one upgrade worth stealing: print…

Invitations
July 2026

Best Paperless Post Alternatives (2026)

Paperless Post's coin pricing trips a lot of hosts up. Here's an honest comparison of the best alternatives, including M…

Tutorials
February 2026

55 Hosting Tips: How to Host People at Home

Hosting doesn't have to be complicated, but it does help to know what actually works. Here are 55 tips for inviting peop…