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August 2026

What to Bring to a Party as a Guest (And What Hosts Actually Want)

I texted my friend Lindsay ten minutes before her party to ask if she needed ice. She told me to come an hour later instead. Here is what hosts actually want you to bring, and what matters more than t…

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Case Studies
August 2026

Printed Questions on the Wall: Joe G's Meetup in Los Angeles

Joe read The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, ran it for a member group in Los Angeles, and made one upgrade worth stealing: print…

Invitations
July 2026

Best Paperless Post Alternatives (2026)

Paperless Post's coin pricing trips a lot of hosts up. Here's an honest comparison of the best alternatives, including M…

Tutorials
February 2026

55 Tips for Hosting People at Home

Hosting doesn't have to be complicated, but it does help to know what actually works. I went through thousands of commen…

Case Studies
September 2025

Alina’s First 2-Hour Party

I received an awesome message from someone who heard me speak at a conference. Alina read my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail…

Icebreakers
July 2025

7 Icebreaker Questions to Use at Your Next Networking Event

I recently led an interactive workshop for the Entrepreneurs' Organization (EO) in Fort Worth.  The goal was to get a ro…

Tutorials
May 2025

10 Best Dinner Party Tips

We all know the power of a great dinner party for making new friends and deepening existing relationships. But what if I…

Case Studies
March 2025

How to Build Community in a Small Town

Have you ever moved to a new town and struggled to meet people and build your network? That's exactly what happened to Y…

Case Studies
March 2025

The Lilly Friend Project: How to Make New Friends 

In 2018, I conducted an experiment placing 100 flyers around NYC with the simple headline 'Do you want New Friends?' Th…

Book Stuff
January 2025

The 2-Hour Cocktail Party: Referenced in UPenn Academic Research

The power of structured social gatherings is gaining academic attention. Noah Adams, a researcher at the University of P…

Tutorials
November 2024

10 Party Conversation Starters

Striking up a conversation with strangers can feel overwhelming. Whether you're an introvert, new to hosting, or just w…

Tutorials
November 2024

10 Color Theme Party Ideas: Dress Code, Decor, and How to Pull It Off

A color theme party is one of the easiest ways to make your gathering feel special. The dress code does half the work fo…