Last updated: October 8, 2024
Heading to a friend’s place for a casual hangout? Don’t show up empty-handed.
This guide offers fifteen foolproof ideas for what to bring to a get-together, perfect for North Americans in their 20s and 30s.
In this article, you’ll discover:
- Classic party staples that never fail to impress
- Unique contributions that’ll make you the MVP guest
- Practical items the host will actually appreciate
- Creative options to elevate any gathering
Let’s dive into the ultimate list of perfect party contributions!
Why you should listen to me: My name is Nick Gray, and I’m the best–selling author of the party handbook The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. I’ve hosted hundreds of parties all over the world. After making it a habit, I can easily host a gathering and make new friends with no sweat. I’ve been featured in The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and New York Magazine once called me a host of “culturally significant” parties.Flowers with a Vase
Bringing flowers is thoughtful, but bringing them in a vase? That’s next-level hosting etiquette.
Including a vase saves your host from the stress of finding a suitable container during a busy party, ensures the flowers are properly cared for immediately, and transforms your gift from a temporary offering into a lasting decoration.
It’s a simple gesture that shows extra consideration for your host’s time and home.
When selecting your flowers and vase:
- Choose a simple, neutral vase that fits any decor
- Opt for in-season blooms for the best value
- Avoid overly fragrant flowers that might clash with food smells
Pro tip: Pre-arrange the flowers at home so the host can simply place the ready-made arrangement wherever they like.
The Classic Chips and Guacamole
You can’t go wrong with this timeless combo.
- Pick sturdy chips that won’t break under the weight of chunky guac
- For store-bought guac, doctor it up with extra lime and cilantro
- Bring a small spoon or spreader for easy serving
Chips and Salsa
When you want to bring the heat (literally).
- Choose a variety of salsas: mild, medium, and hot
- Opt for restaurant-style tortilla chips for that authentic feel
- Bring a few limes to squeeze over the chips for extra zest
Healthy Veggie Platter and Hummus
For when you want to balance out the junk food.
- Include a mix of crunchy veggies: carrots, celery, bell peppers, and cucumber
- Bring both plain and flavored hummus for variety
- Pack some pita chips as an alternative to raw veggies
A Bottle of Wine: Red or White
A classic choice that’s always appreciated.
- Red: Bring a versatile crowd-pleaser like Malbec or Pinot Noir
- White: Opt for a crisp Sauvignon Blanc or a buttery Chardonnay
- Bonus points: Bring a fun wine opener or stopper as an extra gift
A Case of Beer: Local Craft or Seltzers
Perfect for a more casual vibe or outdoor gatherings.
- Mix it up with a variety pack of local craft beers
- Include some hard seltzers for non-beer drinkers
- Don’t forget a bottle opener!
Artisanal Cheese Board
Elevate the snack game with a curated cheese selection.
- Choose 3-4 different types of cheese (soft, hard, aged, and blue)
- Add some cured meats, nuts, and dried fruits
- Bring a small cutting board and cheese knife for easy serving
Board Game or Card Game
Break the ice and get the fun started with a game.
- Choose something easy to learn and quick to play
- Party games like Cards Against Humanity or Codenames are always hits
- For outdoor gatherings, bring a portable game like Spikeball or Kan Jam
Homemade Baked Goods
Impress with your culinary skills by bringing freshly baked goodies.
- Cookies, brownies, or cupcakes are always crowd-pleasers
- Consider dietary restrictions with gluten-free or vegan options
- Package them in a cute, reusable container as an extra gift for the host
Snack Bar: Nuts, Chocolates, or Fruits
Create a customizable snack experience for all guests.
- Bring a variety of popcorn flavors (butter, caramel, cheese)
- Include toppings like M&Ms, nuts, and dried fruit
- Don’t forget small bags or containers for easy snacking
Fancy Non-Alcoholic Beverages
Cater to non-drinkers with elevated drink options.
- Bring a selection of craft sodas or kombucha
- Include some alcohol-free spirits or mocktail ingredients
- Bring fancy glasses or biodegradable straws for a special touch
The Outdoor DIY S’mores Kit
Bring the campfire experience to any backyard party.
- Pack graham crackers, chocolate bars, and marshmallows
- Include roasting sticks if it’s an outdoor event
- Bring a few flavor variations like peanut butter cups or flavored marshmallows
Polaroid or Disposable Cameras
Add a nostalgic touch to the party with instant cameras.
- Bring a few disposable cameras or an Instax camera with extra film
- Include props like funny hats or signs for impromptu photo booths
- Offer to develop and share the photos after the party
Cozy Throw Blankets
Keep everyone comfortable during outdoor events.
- Bring a few soft, machine-washable throw blankets
- Choose neutral colors that match any decor
- Opt for lightweight materials for easy transport
Signature Cocktail Ingredient
Contribute to the drink selection with a unique spirit or mixer.
- Bring a bottle of small-batch gin, flavored vodka, or artisanal bitters
- Include recipe cards for a few cocktails using your special ingredient
- Bring garnishes like fresh herbs or citrus fruits to complete the drinks
Conclusion
Showing up with the perfect item can take you from good guest to great guest.
Here are the key takeaways:
- Mix classic party staples with unique, thoughtful contributions
- Consider the setting and vibe of the get-together when choosing what to bring
- Presentation matters – put a little extra effort into how you package or present your contribution
- Think beyond just food and drinks – entertainment and practical items are appreciated too
- When in doubt, ask the host if there’s anything specific they need
I wrote another article sharing a comprehensive supplies checklist for every gathering. From cocktail parties to birthdays. You name it, it’s all there.
The most important thing you can bring to any gathering is your positive attitude and willingness to have a good time. Happy partying!
In my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, I provide helpful guidance on how to host a great party for any event. I wrote this book to support anyone interested in meeting new people.
When is your party? Send me an email and I will give you some bonus tips, including a pre-party checklist that you can print out. Plus, I’ll answer any question you have, free of charge. I love talking about parties, and I’m on a mission to help 500 people host their first party.
