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How to Start and Host a Book Club in 2024

Last updated: March 27, 2024

Book clubs, ah! The bane of my existence.

Many people start them but few can keep them going. But not you. You’re ready to start the best dang book club your city has ever seen.

In this article, I’ll tell you how you can host a successful book club using a few of these tips:

  • Have a concise format
  • Curate your guests and books
  • Set a schedule
  • Invite your friends and colleagues
  • Facilitate discussions
  • Enjoy the experience!
Why you should listen to me: My name is Nick Gray. I’ve hosted hundreds of parties all over the world. After making it a habit, I can easily host a gathering and make new friends with no sweat. New York Magazine once called me a host of “culturally significant” parties.


A book club is more than just a gathering of individuals with a shared love for reading. It’s a community bound by the threads of stories and the power of discussion.

Reading a book can be inherently lonely. You’re by yourself. But with a book club, you can talk to people about it, socialize,  laugh, and  ask questions or start a lively dialogue.

You can spice it up with name tags, icebreakers, and quick introductions. This helps people feel more comfortable and sets the stage for a successful event.

7 Advantages of Hosting a Book Club

Why host a book club? It can be a rewarding and enriching experience for several reasons:

1. Diverse Perspectives: Through discussions, you gain insight into different backgrounds and viewpoints, helping you to see the book from angles you might not have considered on your own.

2. Social Interaction: It’s a great way to socialize and connect with like-minded individuals who share a common interest in reading. This can lead to new friendships and a sense of belonging.

3. Accountability: Knowing that there’s a scheduled meeting for discussion can motivate participants to finish the book, especially if they tend to procrastinate on their reading.

4. Exposure to Different Genres and Authors: In a book club, you’re likely to read genres you might not have picked up on your own. This broadens your literary horizons.

5. Enhanced Comprehension: The discussions can help clarify confusing or complex parts of the book. It’s like having a built-in support system to help you understand the  material.

6. Cultural Awareness and Empathy: Reading books from diverse cultures and backgrounds can help you gain a better understanding of the world and the experiences of others. It can also make more people feel included.

7. Personal Growth: Engaging with different perspectives and ideas can lead to personal growth and a broader worldview. It also makes you a more interesting person!

Remember, a successful book club is one that’ss inclusive, respectful of different opinions and fosters open and engaging discussions. It’s a space where everyone feels comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings about the material.

Starting Your Own Book Club

Now that you understand the power a book club host has to make the people who come feel connected and appreciated, here’s a step-by-step guide to start your own:

Have a Concise Purpose and Format

  • Decide what type of book club you want to host. Will it be a general fiction club, focused on a specific genre, or centered around a particular author or theme?
  • Determine the frequency of meetings (monthly, bi-monthly, etc.).

Carefully Select Guests and a Book

  • Invite like-minded individuals and pick the first book for discussion. Consider inviting a diverse group of people to bring different perspectives to the table.
  • As you continue to host,  consider a mix of classics, contemporary works, and possibly some genres or topics outside your comfort zone.

Set a Schedule and Communication Channel

  • Determine meeting dates and times, and establish a platform for group communication A WhatsApp group, Facebook group, or dedicated email list works great for this.
  • Pro tip: Opt for Tuesday or Wednesday evenings for about an hour or two. These days are notoriously less crowded with events or happenings.

Send Out Invitations and Reminder Messages

  • Invite your friends or colleagues and ask them to RSVP so you have an accurate headcount.
  • Send reminder messages to all your confirmed guests one week before, three days before, and morning of the party.

Facilitate Discussions and Gather Feedback

  • Use icebreakers and name tags to your advantage. It serves as a great conversation starter and can help your guests feel comfortable in striking up conversations.
  • Lead discussions and encourage respectful dialogue. Collect feedback on the book choice, discussion format, or general suggestions for improvement after each meeting.

Enjoy the Experience and Plan Future Books

  • Remember that the main goal is to have fun, share ideas, and foster a love for reading.
  • Focus on enjoying the club, and at the end of each meeting, decide on the next book for discussion.

Follow these steps and you’ll be well on your way to hosting the most successful and enjoyable book club your city has ever seen!

During the Event

Now that the groundwork for your book club is set, let’s turn our attention to the core of the experience — the event itself.

You want to create a welcoming atmosphere that fosters a friendly and inclusive environment where guests feel comfortable expressing their opinions.

As the host, it’s up to you to lead the discussion. Pose insightful questions that  foster an environment of open and engaging conversation. Just make sure you don’t monopolize the discussion. Give others ample opportunity to speak so they feel included.

Happy Hosting!

By carefully selecting your books, facilitating engaging discussions, and fostering an inclusive atmosphere, you create a space where diverse perspectives converge.

Remember, the ultimate goal is to cultivate a community bound by a love for reading.

Don’t forget these vital things:

  • Have a concise format
  • Curate your guests and books
  • Set a schedule
  • Invite your friends and colleagues
  • Facilitate lively discussions
  • Enjoy the experience!

Start your own book club and enjoy the meaningful connections and shared intellectual growth you experience. Happy reading!

Hello, My name is Nick Gray. In my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, I provide helpful guidance on how to host a great party for any event. I wrote this book to support anyone attempting to meet new people and develop closer bonds with their community.

When is your party? Send me an email and I will give you some bonus tips, including a pre-party checklist that you can print out. Plus I’ll answer any question you have, free of charge. I love talking about parties and I’m on a mission to help 500 people host their first party.

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About the author

Nick Gray is the author of The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. He’s been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and in a popular TEDx talk. He sold his last company Museum Hack in 2019. Today he’s an expert on networking events, small parties, and creating relationships. Read more about Nick Gray here.

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