Icebreaker Cards: Review of 5 Different Decks


There are a ton of icebreaker cards made by many different companies.

I’ll do an unbiased review of a few of these icebreaker card decks in this article.

BestSelf Icebreaker Cards

This company makes several decks of icebreaker cards:

Icebreaker Deeper Talk

Sample Icebreaker Card Questions

  • Which historical character could you have been in a past life and why?
  • What choice had the greatest impact on your life?
  • What’s the last thing you changed your mind about and why?
  • How do you best receive criticism?
  • What do people say you can’t do that you’re sure you could if you really tried?
  • Where’s the edge of your comfort zone currently?

Icebreaker Deck

Icebreaker Deck Questions

  • Would you rather be the funniest or smartest person in the room?
  • What’s your favorite quote?
  • What’s the best date you’ve ever been on?
  • What do the first 30 mins of your typical day look like?
  • If you could only keep three things from your home, what would you pick and why?
  • What’s something you are self-conscious about?

Intimacy Deck

Sample Icebreakers

  • If I asked your past partners to list your most negative characteristics, what would they tell me?
  • What’s one thing you’d like to get better at over the next year?
  • If you were given a million dollars that you had to spend in one week, how would you spend it?
  • What are your top five regrets in life?
  • What have been [or remain to be] of contention in our relationship? How should we be working on it?
  • If you could have a magic wand, what would you want more of in your x life?

TableTopics Icebreaker Cards

They have a lot of icebreaker decks with different topics. They have ones in travel size editions and conversation packs, too!

Couples Table Topics

  • This deck is a conversation starter for couples which includes thought-provoking questions to get to know each other on a next level.
  • 135 cards
  • Buy it on Amazon: $25

Sample Icebreakers

  • What three things do we want to do together in the next year?
  • In what ways do you find yourself behaving like your father or mother?
  • What does your partner do that makes you laugh the hardest?
  • Is it more important for a couple to have a great conversation, lots of laughs, or great x?
  • Where would we like to go on our next big anniversary?
  • If we could have dinner with any six people, who would we choose?

Cocktail Table Topics

  • Fun questions to enjoy with your favorite cocktail and card backs feature interesting cocktail trivia and recipes.
  • 135 cards
  • Buy it on Amazon: $25

Fun Icebreaker Examples

  • What are your vices?
  • If you could be any age again for one week what age would you be?
  • What’s your favorite movie from your teen years?
  • What was the best thing that happened to you this year?
  • What brings you joy in good times and bad?
  • Which experience could you write a book about?

Even More Icebreaker Card Decks

I also have a bunch more decks, which I will review soon:

Other Icebreaker Card Games

We’re Not Really Strangers Icebreaker Card

  • 150 questions and wildcards
  • This deck has 3 levels: 1 Perception, 2 Connection, 3 Reflection
  • Buy it on Amazon: $25

Holstee Reflection Cards

  • Perfect for any gatherings with friends, family, co-workers, with a partner, or with your journal
  • 2 questions each card
  • Buy it on Amazon: $18.95

We! Connect Cards

400 Conversation Starters for Friends

So Cards Conversation Starter


There are a lot of icebreaker card games. I like the BestSelf ones. There are other good ones, too.

I will try to review more! Do you have one that I should review? Email me to [email protected] and I will add it to my list.

For other games to play at your party, see this List of Games to Play at Your Party.

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