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What to Bring to a Bachelor Party

Last updated: October 27, 2024

Planning to attend a bachelor party? Don’t show up empty-handed!

Whether you’re the best man or a guest, this guide will help you arrive prepared and contribute to an unforgettable celebration.

You’ll learn:

  • Essential items every guest should bring
  • How to contribute meaningfully to group activities
  • A perfect 2-hour party schedule that maximizes fun
  • Ways to make the groom feel special
  • Tips for mixing with guests you don’t know
Why you should listen to me: My name is Nick Gray, and I’m the best–selling author of the party handbook The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. I’ve hosted hundreds of parties all over the world. After making it a habit, I can easily host a gathering and make new friends with no sweat. I’ve been featured in The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and New York Magazine once called me a host of “culturally significant” parties.

Essentials

Pack these items to ensure you’re ready for anything:

  • Cash: For unexpected expenses, tips, or group activities
  • Phone charger: Keep your device powered for photos and coordination
  • Comfortable clothes: Pack according to planned activities
  • Small gift or card: A thoughtful gesture for the groom
  • Name tags: Essential for mixing different friend groups

Pro Tip: Name tags are game-changers at bachelor parties where different friend groups meet for the first time. Place them on the right side of your chest – it’s easier to read when shaking hands!

Food and Drinks

Coordinate with other guests to avoid duplicate items:

  • One bottle of premium liquor
  • Mixers (sparkling water, soda, or juice)
  • Light snacks (chips, nuts, or pretzels)
  • Ice (if not provided at the venue)
  • Plastic cups and basic supplies

Pro Tip: Just like a cocktail party, keep food simple. Avoid messy items that require utensils. The goal is to encourage mingling, not sitting down for a meal. Read more: How to Encourage Mingling at Your Party

Entertainment 

Bring these to keep the energy high:

Gift Ideas

Consider these thoughtful options:

Simple Gifts:

  • Quality bottle of his favorite spirit
  • Personalized flask or beer mug
  • Funny t-shirt for the wedding day
  • Gift card to his favorite store
  • Photo album of memories together

Group Gifts:

  • Pool money for a significant item
  • Shared experience voucher
  • Custom groomsmen accessories
  • Joint contribution to honeymoon fund

Pro Tip: Coordinate gifts in advance through a group chat. It prevents duplicates and ensures a good mix of meaningful presents.

Mixing Different Friend Groups

Bachelor parties often bring together various friend groups. Here’s how to handle it:

Pro Tip: Break up existing cliques by assigning mixed seating or teams. It forces organic mingling and new connections.

Conclusion

A bachelor party isn’t just about celebrating – it’s about creating meaningful connections and memories that last well beyond the wedding day. 

When you arrive prepared and contribute positively to the celebration, you help create an atmosphere where both old and new friendships can flourish.

Key takeaways:

  • Pack essentials that contribute to the group’s enjoyment
  • Use name tags to break down social barriers
  • Follow a structured schedule to maintain energy
  • Mix different friend groups intentionally
  • Keep food and drinks simple to encourage mingling
  • End on time to maintain the party’s momentum
  • Have a plan for continued celebration elsewhere

In my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, I provide helpful guidance on how to host a great party for any event. I wrote this book to support anyone interested in meeting new people.

When is your party? Send me an email and I will give you some bonus tips, including a pre-party checklist that you can print out. Plus, I’ll answer any question you have, free of charge. I love talking about parties, and I’m on a mission to help 500 people host their first party.

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About the author

Nick Gray is the author of The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. He’s been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and in a popular TEDx talk. He sold his last company Museum Hack in 2019. Today he’s an expert on networking events, small parties, and creating relationships. Read more about Nick Gray here.

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