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Tutorials
May 2022

Icebreaker Name Tags: 30+ Prompts and Ideas That Actually Work

Most parties start the same way: people walk in, grab a drink, and stand near whoever they already know. Nobody's rude.…

Tutorials
May 2022

How to Make New Friends at Work and In the Office

Starting a new job is exciting. But it can also feel lonely, especially those first few weeks when you don't know anyone…

Book Stuff
May 2022

Testimonials

Here are testimonials from people who read my book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. When it comes to socializing, Nick is the…

Case Studies
May 2022

How to Make New Friends by Hosting a Party: Dan's Story

Dan is a busy entrepreneurial dad with three kids. For Dan and many others, the past few years have made relationships h…

Book Stuff
May 2022

Favor request: Submit a Review

If you have an Amazon or Goodreads account, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave me an honest review. It takes less than tw…

Tutorials
May 2022

How to Host A Party

Hosting a party doesn't have to be complicated. I'll show you how to make it easy and fun. Executive Summary To host you…

Key Concepts
May 2022

How to End a Party on a High Note

Nick Gray's real script for ending a party on time, plus a second host's own tactic for getting people out the door.

Tutorials
May 2022

How to Make New Friends in Your Neighborhood

Do you live in a neighborhood or apartment building and wish you knew more of your neighbors? My friend Sujan did someth…

Tutorials
May 2022

Why sitting down is Kryptonite

Never Sit Down An easy way to keep icebreakers short and raise the energy is to have everyone stand in a tight circle. S…

Invitations
May 2022

Who To Invite to Your First Party

I’m going to tell you exactly who to invite to your party. Listen up, because this is important. Your first party should…

Key Concepts
May 2022

Core Group: Your Best Friends and Party Stars

Your core group will be an essential piece of your party puzzle. They’re people with whom you feel comfortable. They’re…

Invitations
May 2022

How Many People to Invite to a Cocktail Party

For your first party, aim for fifteen confirmed guests. I’ve found that fifteen people at a cocktail party gives the bes…