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Tutorials
September 2023

How to Host a Hotel Lobby Party, Meetup, or Happy Hour

I believe that most 2-hour cocktail parties should be hosted at home. There’s a variety of reasons for this. But sometim…

Tutorials
September 2023

How to Host an Article Club

Are you a member of a book club but struggling to keep up with the pile of books you still need to read? Book clubs … R…

Tutorials
September 2023

How to Host an Event: Parties & Networking

Have you ever been to a party or a networking event that felt utterly disorganized? Or one that was so memorable that th…

Tutorials
September 2023

30+ Awesome Party Conversation Topics to Keep the Vibes Flowing

I moved to New York City not knowing anyone. For the first few years, parties felt like a test I kept failing. I'd stand…

Tutorials
September 2023

How to Mingle at a Party (Even If You Hate Small Talk)

Most people treat mingling like a personality trait. Either you have it or you don't. I used to think that too. But afte…

Icebreakers
August 2023

Icebreaker Activities for Your Next Event

It's completely natural to feel nervous or overwhelmed when you are getting a group together and want them to socialize.…

Tutorials
August 2023

Beyond the Weather: The Best Small Talk Ideas

Connecting with people is no easy task. Some people spend their entire lives afraid of doing this. I wrote out the best…

Tutorials
August 2023

What’s Small Talk? And How it Builds Connections

Most people underestimate small talk. They think it's just filler before the "real" conversation starts. But after hosti…

Tutorials
August 2023

The Art of Small Talk: Techniques & Tips to Overcome Anxiety

Do you hate small talk? Do you feel anxious, boring, or awkward when you have to chat with someone you don't know well?…

Tutorials
July 2023

How to Meet Your Neighbors and Foster a Sense of Community

Moving to a new area can be an exciting time. You usually spend the first few weeks finding your favorite grocery store,…

Tutorials
July 2023

This Party is Not an MLM

Several people who have bought and read my book have mentioned they’re getting feedback that their party seems like a ML…

Book Stuff
July 2023

Bulk Order for The 2-Hour Cocktail Party

Hi. Nick Gray here. My book, The 2-Hour Cocktail Party is available for bulk orders. How To Buy If you want to buy five…